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A local couple chats with Margaret about their BDSM lifestyle
Alright guys here it is - our local interview with New Day Northwest was this morning.
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This is the best thing I’ve ever seen. Beautifully done! Please watch and reblog? It’s so important. :-)
R.I.P baroniansmythe’s inbox.
this is still one of my favorite things i’ve seen in the BDSM community. you two were wonderful and i will always reblog this. this interview was perfect. thanks as always for sharing one of @baroniansmythe‘s writings. we were both truly honored.
Dear “Daddies”
It has come to my attention that some of you… Don’t quite understand what being a Daddy means.
Daddy… Is not just a word.
You may like to be called Daddy, and that’s fine. But just because you like to be CALLED Daddy does not mean that you ARE A DADDY.
See the difference?
Daddy vs A Daddy
Here is my big issue with those of you who may not fully understand your responsibility as a Daddy.
Your Fucking Job… Is not to hurt.
Your Fucking Job… Is not to hit.
Yes, punish. But a safe word means you fucking stop. A safe word means YOU. FUCKING. STOP.
your god damn job as a Fucking DADDY is to TAKE CARE OF and fucking PROTECT your Little.
You do not hit out of anger.
You do not punish out of anger.
You do not strike.
You do not yell.
You do not hurt.
And you sure as hell don’t ever, fucking ever, say she isn’t enough.
Your Little is a Fucking gift. If you are angry with her, then you take some time to yourself to cool down before punishment. Don’t you EVER lay a Fucking finger on her while you are angry it doesn’t matter what she Fucking did. Do you Fucking understand?
It is your RESPONSIBILITY AS A DADDY!!!
And if you aren’t man enough to control your fucking emotions…
Then step aside…
There are REAL Daddies out there ready to take care of her.
And if I ever… Fucking ever… Meet one of you pieces of shit in person and I know what you have done/do to your Little… I’m giving you more than just a piece of my mind. And that is a fucking promise.
^^This right here
I will never not reblog this
Brilliant !!!! I would like to add that a Daddy is not a source of drama. He doesn’t
trivialize or disparage the one he is supposed to love and protect. If
the only way you think you can express “dominance” is to commit mental or
physical violence on your little/sub then as the Man said “step aside”. Master yourself before you try and master anyone else.
Thanks for this, @fuxed-it it was well expressed and has something some could learn from.
Night people Vs. Morning people
- Night: Sagittarius, Scorpio, Taurus, Aries, Virgo, Pisces
- Morning: Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Libra, Capricorn, Aquarius
- Totally I am a Night ppl
Anonymous asked:
How did you know you were dominant? What was your first experience like?
instructor144 answered:
This is a really good question, and gets right to the heart of the whole “nature vs. nurture” issue. I’ll tell you what I believe: we are born this way, just like gay people are. I’ve talked to too many people over the years, submissives and Dominants, who describe that same “I just knew” feeling, for me to believe otherwise.
In my case, my first experience where I felt what I now think of as “the Dom feeling” was when I was five. Mary was about 3, and lived in the tenement next door; our back yards were separated by a cyclone fence. I can remember one day in particular, instructing her how to make mud pies …
“Now take your spoon and put some dirt in with the water.”
“OK!”
“Now mix it around real good.”
“OK!”
Now, Mary was still on the bottle, and back then bottles were made of glass. She dropped her bottle, and it broke apart into several dangerous shards of glass. She reached for it without thinking, and I quickly stuck my hand through the fence and pulled the shards away to keep her safe. Sliced the middle finger of my right hand right up the middle. I still carry the scar, though it is now faint and shrunken.
But you see? All the elements are there: the exhilaration of giving instructions and structure, and having them obeyed; and the all-important instinct to protect my girl and keep her safe. “The Dom feeling.”
Now, mind you, later on when I discovered the NYC scene, things became sexualized and the rich and intoxicating variety of what we commonly call “kink” became an important part of my being, but the kink is not the core of D/s, it’s all those other things that I felt as a little boy of five.
Followers, please chime in with your own thoughts and experiences.
